What lessons are our young people learning from us? In what ways are we teaching and sharing the messages they receive?
That video has been making the rounds across the interwebs lately. It’s an incredible performance and a stark reminder that our children and youth are extremely perceptive and they see and hear things we might not even realize we’re sending their way. Sometimes they see and hear things we wish they wouldn’t. Not because those things are vulgar per se, but because we wish they weren’t true about us.
We showed that video to our high school youth group last night. They were especially interested in what causes people, schools, communities to ban books. Of what are they afraid? What do those people and places think will be accomplished by the bans? Don’t they know there are always other ways of getting a book?
Given the summer of Ferguson, #StayWokeAdvent, and the seemingly daily reports of violence necessitating the cry that #BlackLivesMatter, I hope next we’ll spend more time considering the stark, arresting lines in the performance about all those bones upon whom we’ve built the dominant culture.
How about at WUMC? What unspoken messages are we sending? Specifically, what lessons are our physical space teaching?
A few weeks ago we asked our teens to spend time in various parts of the church to see what our space teaches. According to our physical space, who do we say God is? After nearly an hour of scouring our building to find the messages therein, we asked them to narrow their responses.
What is the most important message you found?
- God accepts
everyoneevery living thing.
- God wants us to be a blessing to others.
- That we should be inclusive and share God’s love and message.
- That you should be loving and caring and respectful.
- Have faith without fear.
What was the most surprising or most troubling message you found?
- That we should walk with Jesus rather than following him. That’s surprising because we’re used to hearing all about follow, follow, follow. This felt more like ‘think for yourself with Jesus.’
- Treat people respectfully even if you don’t like them. That’s troubling because when you don’t like someone you usually don’t want to treat them well.
- We serve multiple purposes, we have to help people not just in Woodridge but all around the world.
- Surprising that most of the rooms had messages about money, that we need to give money.
What message you found is the hardest to live?
- Putting God first.
- Loving everyone. Because you don’t always like everyone. It’s hard to love those who don’t respect you.
- Always follow God.
- Waking up everyday like it’s your last, trying your hardest 24/7. Some days you just don’t feel up to giving your all.
- Spread the word. Because sometimes we’re shy or afraid we’ll be judged.
“We were taught that It is better to be silent than to make them uncomfortable!” May we continually strive to avoid that trap.